Nang-iwan, iniwan, gustong umalis, gusto manatili. Maraming circumstances pero they are all standing on the same line. LOVE.
GUSTO MANATILI.
Who doesn't want a relationship to last long? All of us mapalalaki man o babae, binabae o nilalake. Lahat tayo nangangarap ng isang pangmatagalang relasyon, yung bang pang forever. And we often tend to stick with this dream, and so stick with our partners. Ang tanong. Nagmamahalan pa ba? Minamahal ka pa ba? Mahal mo pa ba? o Sayang lang ang mga ORAS at PANAHON niyo na magkasama?
GUSTONG UMALIS.
Kahit gaano mo man sabihin na You want it to last long, last forever. There will come a time na gustong gusto mo magmove on. You want to live anew. Live a life without the person you used to have. Anong dahilan? Nagsawa ka? nasasaktan ka na? nasasaktan mo na? may mahal kang iba? O sadyang namiss mo lang maging single? Ano man ang dahilan. Whatever is the outcome of your decision the result should always be TRUE happiness. Kasayahang di pilit, kasayahang di nahuhusgahan, kasayahang sayo.
INIWAN.
Madalas sa mga iniwan, lumuluha. Pero luha ba to ng kaligayahan o luha ng pusong durog? Minsan sa una mararamdaman mo ang kalungkutan tsaka mo lang marerealize na " this is my fate , mas naging masaya ako nung inwan ako. " Minsan naman pilit mong sinasabi sa sarili mo na " I am fortunate na iniwan ako ." pero at the end di mo rin makukubli na sobrang gusto mong magmakaawa para balikan ka. Alin man ang dahilan ng luha mo, luha parin yan. Tears. It came from feelings, totoo man o hindi. Pero para sa mga taong iniwan at di binalikan, baka naman may nakalaan na magbibigay ng authentic happiness. Ang iba naman na iniwan at binalikan dahil sa awa, huwag pasisiguro dahil anytime puede parin kayong iwan. at para naman sa mga taong iniwan ngunit binalikan, maging masaya ka na, dahil di lahat binabalikan.
NANGIWAN.
Sa isang relasyon, ang nangiwan ang siyang laging masama. Walang konsensya, at walang tunay na pagmamahal. Yes, maybe you can doubt the heart, the actions, but never the feelings. No matter if it is true or not, feelings are feelings and no one has the right to doubt its authenticity. Dahil wala kayo sa sitwasyon niya, wala kayo sa kinalalagyan niya, and therefore wala kayong alam sa tunay na pinagdaanan ng taong nangiwan. Some may argue that they experienced the same, pero hindi. You may experience some of the experiences but you will never experience exactly the same. May mga bagay na siguro maiintindihan mo, pero siguradong may mga bagay na ang taong nangiwan lang ang makakaintindi. There are just things you have to let go, people you have to give up for an absurd reason. FEELINGS.
Lahat ng tao nagmamahal, lahat nasasaktan, lahat nakakaramdam ng saya, pero di lahat nagtatagal. Some people are afraid to take risk when it comes to love, some people are always taking risk. But for me, if I am not certain, heart cannot dictate.
- <3
Linggo, Abril 29, 2012
We Have to Face the End.
" and now my end is near. I have to face my final curtain. "
Death can't be conquered by anyone or by anything. It is inevitable, this is the only end everyone has to face and it is certain.
2 days ago, my uncle died because of Cancer. But before giving up his life, he made the " thumb up " sign because he cannot utter any words anymore. Thumbs up! What does this mean? ano nga ba ibig sabihin ng thumbs up? Does this means okay? okay na umalis na siya at iwan lahat ng taong mahal niya? Okay na siya na makitang his son is now stable at work? Okay na siya na makitang his youngest had already graduated? or Okay na lang siya. Okay na lang siya dahil ayaw niya na makitang his family is suffering emotionally, financially, and spiritually. There are still so many reasons why he thumbs up. And the real reason? No one knows, but him.
Life. We cannot have it until the end. Kahit kailan, sa kahit paanong paraan, if it's your time, it's your time. That's it. Pero alin ba ang mas masakit? Yung biglaan? O yung napaghandaan? Yung makikita mo munang naghihirap o yung within a snap nawala na lang bigla? ano nga ba mas masakit sa mga taong naiwang lumuluha ang puso? Para sa akin? Walang mas masakit o mas magaan dalhin. You both lose your loved one, at sa kahit paanong paraan, mabilis o mabagal man, pareho kayong nawalan. You both have to adjust to a new life without that person with you physically. You both have to think of ways how to go on with your lives. you both have to accept that it's the time to let go.
Letting go.
Does this mean forgetting? yes. no. maybe. Whatever the answer is, no doubt that the heart will never forget. The mind may lose all the memories, but never the heart. The mind may forget how it feels to be with the one you lose, but never the heart. This is merely because the mind may experience amnesia but never the heart. And this heart, our hearts will forever miss the person we lose. Our hearts will forever long to be with the person we lose.
Hindi na maibabalik ang nawalang buhay. Pero wala namang nagsabi na hindi na pwedeng buhayin sa ating mga puso ang buhay ng mga nawala na. We may lose YOU physically, but in our hearts you will forever live. In our hearts, your legacy will always blaze.
Death can't be conquered by anyone or by anything. It is inevitable, this is the only end everyone has to face and it is certain.
2 days ago, my uncle died because of Cancer. But before giving up his life, he made the " thumb up " sign because he cannot utter any words anymore. Thumbs up! What does this mean? ano nga ba ibig sabihin ng thumbs up? Does this means okay? okay na umalis na siya at iwan lahat ng taong mahal niya? Okay na siya na makitang his son is now stable at work? Okay na siya na makitang his youngest had already graduated? or Okay na lang siya. Okay na lang siya dahil ayaw niya na makitang his family is suffering emotionally, financially, and spiritually. There are still so many reasons why he thumbs up. And the real reason? No one knows, but him.
Life. We cannot have it until the end. Kahit kailan, sa kahit paanong paraan, if it's your time, it's your time. That's it. Pero alin ba ang mas masakit? Yung biglaan? O yung napaghandaan? Yung makikita mo munang naghihirap o yung within a snap nawala na lang bigla? ano nga ba mas masakit sa mga taong naiwang lumuluha ang puso? Para sa akin? Walang mas masakit o mas magaan dalhin. You both lose your loved one, at sa kahit paanong paraan, mabilis o mabagal man, pareho kayong nawalan. You both have to adjust to a new life without that person with you physically. You both have to think of ways how to go on with your lives. you both have to accept that it's the time to let go.
Letting go.
Does this mean forgetting? yes. no. maybe. Whatever the answer is, no doubt that the heart will never forget. The mind may lose all the memories, but never the heart. The mind may forget how it feels to be with the one you lose, but never the heart. This is merely because the mind may experience amnesia but never the heart. And this heart, our hearts will forever miss the person we lose. Our hearts will forever long to be with the person we lose.
Hindi na maibabalik ang nawalang buhay. Pero wala namang nagsabi na hindi na pwedeng buhayin sa ating mga puso ang buhay ng mga nawala na. We may lose YOU physically, but in our hearts you will forever live. In our hearts, your legacy will always blaze.
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